Lurk No More
When I began this blog on a hot August night three years ago, I rather hoped people would take the time to read my pithy musings. But, I had no idea how many other wonderful people I'd come into contact with through the blog world.
Almost no one left me comments during the first two years of this blogs' existence. And then, suddenly, folks started leaving me their two cents. Often my heart is touched by the comments folks share. I also frequently laugh till tears roll down my cheeks. Due to the side splitting, thought-provoking and sometimes enigmatic comments readers have left me, I've realized, at it's best, blogging is a two way street, a dialogue between the author and those that choose to read the blog.
But, sometimes, I wonder, who are all the people who read my blog but don't engage in this dialogue? Well, officially, those people are called "lurkers".
Yes, "lurkers". Eww. That seems like such an overly sinister term, don't you think?
Doesn't referring to yourself as a lurker just leave an odd taste in your mouth? Just imagine having to eternally introduce yourself as, "Hi, I'm (insert your name) and I'm a lurker."
So, if that term "lurker" is hanging over your head like a thundercloud, go ahead, let today be the day you break free from the lurking chains that bind you! I promise, I won't bite. And, just think, since you're only saying hi to me online, I can't even force you to listen to Depeche Mode.
This is a seriously low-risk proposition. I'll even walk you through it, step by step.
1) Getting started: At the bottom of this post is a little link that says "Add Your Two Cents". Move the mouse cursor over that and then click it.
2) Type a comment. You don't have to be Oscar Wilde witty or anything like that. Just tell me hi and who you are, how long you've been reading this blog, how you found it...you know, that kind of first date, get to know you kind of stuff. If you're really dying to tell me other stuff about yourself or what you think about this blog, feel free. What do you wish I wrote about? What's your favorite post? Let loose! (And all you regulars can feel free to tell me this stuff too, if you're so inclined.)
3) Who are you? Decide if you're posting as anonymous or as yourself. Come on, don't be anonymous. At least put your name at the bottom of your post.
4) Click submit.
I'm really looking forward to hearing from y'all on this special "Lurk No More" day. Thank you for taking the risk and becoming a part of the dialogue.
Almost no one left me comments during the first two years of this blogs' existence. And then, suddenly, folks started leaving me their two cents. Often my heart is touched by the comments folks share. I also frequently laugh till tears roll down my cheeks. Due to the side splitting, thought-provoking and sometimes enigmatic comments readers have left me, I've realized, at it's best, blogging is a two way street, a dialogue between the author and those that choose to read the blog.
But, sometimes, I wonder, who are all the people who read my blog but don't engage in this dialogue? Well, officially, those people are called "lurkers".
Yes, "lurkers". Eww. That seems like such an overly sinister term, don't you think?
Doesn't referring to yourself as a lurker just leave an odd taste in your mouth? Just imagine having to eternally introduce yourself as, "Hi, I'm (insert your name) and I'm a lurker."
So, if that term "lurker" is hanging over your head like a thundercloud, go ahead, let today be the day you break free from the lurking chains that bind you! I promise, I won't bite. And, just think, since you're only saying hi to me online, I can't even force you to listen to Depeche Mode.
This is a seriously low-risk proposition. I'll even walk you through it, step by step.
1) Getting started: At the bottom of this post is a little link that says "Add Your Two Cents". Move the mouse cursor over that and then click it.
2) Type a comment. You don't have to be Oscar Wilde witty or anything like that. Just tell me hi and who you are, how long you've been reading this blog, how you found it...you know, that kind of first date, get to know you kind of stuff. If you're really dying to tell me other stuff about yourself or what you think about this blog, feel free. What do you wish I wrote about? What's your favorite post? Let loose! (And all you regulars can feel free to tell me this stuff too, if you're so inclined.)
3) Who are you? Decide if you're posting as anonymous or as yourself. Come on, don't be anonymous. At least put your name at the bottom of your post.
4) Click submit.
I'm really looking forward to hearing from y'all on this special "Lurk No More" day. Thank you for taking the risk and becoming a part of the dialogue.
Comments
Good luck, can't wait to see if you get any.
I am Gerald, i read periodically, and I have for about two months. i found you looking for cool Baha'i bloggers.
Bye!
I found your blog thru African American Father! Thanks to u bloggers, you keep my day interesting and thought provoking!
Yeah Gonzales is gone...now who's the next target!
I do desperately love to read, and it makes me smile internally, thinking how much I miss (and DON'T miss) living in Los Angeles.
I may post on my experiences as a Southern Californian, Orange County and No Ho, mostly.
Read ya later :)
Peace and Blessings
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I responded to everyone's comments and clicked "publish"...and alas, away everything went into the blogger black hole. I have to do some stuff, but I'll try to reply again in a little bit!
I'm a brand new blogger and your blog is one of a few that inspired me to stop thinking about it and do it! So thanks for your blog, I love it. If you have a free moment please visit my blog Mes Deaux Cents (My Two Cents) I actually wrote a post talking about your blog and several others.
mesdeauxcents.blogspot.com
Thanks!
I loved the one where you wrote about going to the gym. I was cracking up.
Keep on writing!
Mouzhan
I found you through my sister Kari's blog and now I'm a frequent lurker. You've written so many insightful, funny, challenging things, how could I possibly pick a favorite? Let me just say thanks for everything you do. And that includes inspiring me to download some Depeche Mode from iTunes and reconnect with one of my favorite bands from high school!
Hammer,
I'm so happy so many folks have introduced themselves. It's nice to get to know who comes over here to visit a bit more!
Gerald,
Welcome! I'm glad you went out on a limb and said hi. Thanks for saying hello. Do put your two cents in more frequently! I'd love to have your perspective.
Miz JJ,
Aww, why thank you! I'm glad we got connected...yet another reason why West's blog is cool.
Janie,
I am really enjoying your blog as well. I'm so glad we got connected through Joy. I'm still thinking about the hair thing that I commented on. I have a post on that brewing.
Gyamfua,
Glad to be of service in pursuit of more interesting days! And Gonzales...that was quite a surprise! What's going on in that White House?
Ian,
I don't mind folks who come by and comment all the time and don't have blogs, but I also sort of don't understand the phenomenon of registering with blogger and then not starting one. I suppose they just haven't gotten around to it. . It's fun to comment on other folks' blogs, but it's fun to write my own thoughts too, you know? To each his own though, I guess.
Maia,
Ok, you absolutely get the "Lurk No More" award of the year! I'm so glad you introduced yourself. Six months?? I had no idea! :) And yes, that Depeche Mode thing...glad it's endearing to someone, LOL! I'd actually worked 101 hours that week I went to the convention. It was definitely happiness you saw there, and probably a bit of delirium as well! Anyway, thanks for introducing yourself and please share more.
Jameil,
So it was clearly serendipity for you to find my blog! And I'm in your top 5? I'm going to tell that to all my haters out there! LOL!
Piscesmama,
Yes, I replied to your comment from the other day and I'm honored you want to add me to your blogroll. Thanks for coming to visit me again. I know that one of these days when I leave LA, I'll probably reminisce via bloggers as well. Although, I don't know if I'll reminisce about traffic on the 101 too much!
Natasha,
I just clicked over to check them out and I your blog and your site are just great. I am loving this no more lurking thing more and more! And I'm working on something for ARP right now. Looking forward to connecting with you more.
Mes Deaux Cents
Thanks for introducing yourself. Now I can add "inspired others to blog" to my epitaph! :) I will definitely come by and check out your new home on the web!
Mouzhan,
I'm glad you come over to visit me! Yes, that post on the gym...that one makes me laugh as well. I went over to that Bally's the other day. Same ole same ole. Don't worry, I'm gonna keep writing!
Joy,
Hey Joy! I'm so glad you said hi! I used to teach in Compton and I until very recently, I worked for Teach For America. I supported teachers that were primarily in the Watts area. I used to spend all my days down there with the kids and I miss it. What do you do? Whatever it is, keep doing it. I'm sure it's worthwhile and amazing.
Rebecca,
Wow, welcome! I'm so glad you came over through Kari's blog, which I absolutely love by the way. That's so nice of you to say thank you. I'm especially glad to see you reconnecting with the Depeche Mode. They're supposedly going to start recording their new album soon. I can't wait!
Christie D.,
It's so neat to see how many folks come over here via ARP. Welcome! Are your boys obsessed with Power Rangers too? LOL! Thanks for saying hi and hope you come weigh in on some of the topics over here as well.
Keep writing, and I'll try to comment more often, I promise.
I'm so glad you stopped by again and introduced yourself. Welcome to a fellow Angeleno! I totally get how busy things can get...I meant to respond to comments again yesterday or write another post today and it just didn't happen! In any case, I came by your blog and I could totally relate to your experiences with your daughter. :)
Sundry,
Oh that is funny! Yes, that's Depeche Mode...you know I had to work a mention of them in somehow! Ha!
my name is Suzanne and I am from Germany.
I discovered your blog about a week ago via Mrs. 1969 and will certainly become a regular reader.
Thanks for letting me lurk!
Suze
Welcome to you and glad you said hello! I've heard that some businesses are starting to block Blogger because they say employees are spending too much time reading blogs. I sure hope that doesn't happen to you at your job. Reading blogs for a few minutes is a much needed mental break from the hustle and bustle. Glad to be a bit of a diversion for you! ;0
Classicrose,
Welcome to you as well and glad you're enjoying reading. Violater is a fantastic cd. It's definitely one of my favorites, and tends to be the DM record all others are compared to. You have good taste!
Noel,
Yeah, all of us bloggers are going to be in some sociology of narcissism class twenty years from now.
Suzanne,
Wow, Germany? I wish I could give you a prize for commenter from furthest away. :0 You'd definitely win. Thanks for delurking and saying hi. I love 1969's blog as well. She's a quite a talented storyteller.
I think you found me first, right? If so, how did you find me?
Kate
Can't remember how I found you but I've been lurking here for a few months. God this unlurking is troublesome! Thanks for your invite. You have a lovely family.
kari
I think I lucked out and found you on one of those "next blog" clicks. :) Gosh, maybe I do have good luck sometimes!
Patsgirl,
Gosh, isn't unlurking/delurking...whatever we want to call it, a bit scary? Why is that? Regardless, I'm glad you took the plunge and said hi. And, thanks for the compliment on my family. I miss them...they're still in LA and I'm away.
Kari,
I know...sometimes I feel like that awkward girl that always liked some guy who wasn't that into me. And everybody didn't come out of hiding yet! It's ok though, one of these days folks will say hi.
Better late than never. And I love your blog :)
I don't have a site meter so I have no idea if anyone reads what I write besides those who comment. But I would hope that they felt comfortable enough to let me know who they are and what they think.
We should have a No More Lurking Day and post your wonderful letter on everybody's blog.
Thanks! You inspired me to encourage the lurkers to come out of the closet. And trust me, the admiration is mutual.
Heart,
It's been great seeing people say hi. I love it! It's so funny because I got a site meter last year around this time because I was convinced that no one was reading my blog at all and I wanted to see if anybody at all was coming by at all. Turned out that people were visiting but they weren't leaving comments, which really interests me. I'm sure someone somewhere has done some psycholocial/sociological studies on this, or will in the future.
And someone told me there's national de-lurking week! It's in January.
But your writing, thus far in my reading, is fun and full of personality. And anybody who loves Depeche Mode can't be bad.
Best wishes to you.
-Alex
Oh that's great that you're going to start your own blog. I hope you come over and let me know the URL!